The average age a
toddler will toilet train is 2 ½ years.
Beginning training too early can be frustrating, both for you and your
child. Since every child is different
look for signs that your child is ready for training to determine the best time
to start.
Awareness of bodily functions - commenting when they go.
Expressing
an interest in being dry and clean.
Able to understand
and follow simple directions.
Simple
self-dressing.
Interest and
curiosity about bathroom habits.
Never start training if
there are big changes about to take place such as a parent returning to work, a
move, or a new baby. Training times will vary and toddlers should be allowed to
train at their own pace.
In order for toddlers to
learn they need to feel wet. Disposable diapers and training pants have a
chemical gel in them called sodium polyacrylate to absorb wetness. Using cloth
diapers or training pants while training will help your toddler feel wet, and
help them make the connection between feeling and going potty.
In the early stages of
potty training your toddler will need reminders to use the potty. Repetition is a key factor as well as being
consistent. Kids thrive on structure and
routine because it is secure and reliable. Use the same words and gestures when
potty training. Take your child through the same routine each time. It is
easier to form a habit when there is consistency. Try to anticipate your
child’s needs and look for signs that a toilet training opportunity is coming.
Take advantage of key times. Have your child sit on the potty for a short time
after meals, before taking a nap, or after waking up dry. Remember to encourage
your child and reward them for their efforts each time with lots of hugs and
kisses.
Establish good hygiene
practices right from the start. Teach
your daughter to wipe from front to back.
Teach your son the fine art of hitting the toilet bowl instead of the
wall, floor or toilet lid by rolling up a small piece of toilet paper and
having him aim for it in the bowl. Also
teach them to pull up their pants and wash their hands.
Don’t shame or punish when your child has an
accident. Patience is the key to
parenting a toddler.
